Ashley Madison

With the world of dating getting more and more popular online, there are many websites dedicated to bringing people from around the world together for sexual relationships, dating and friendship. The Ashley Madison Agency is one of these dedicated sites however it is uniquely specialized for people who are married or in a relationship and looking for a little excitement or fulfillment on the side. Ashley Madison comes highly recommended with over 3 million married active members from the US, Canada, UK and Ireland!

It is not just the personal recommendations and testimonials from real members that reinforces that Ashley Madison can be successful bringing married people happiness outside their marriage, it is also the only certified married dating service that has been featured on Oprah, Larry King, Ellen, Dr Phil, Fox News and others! The Ashley Madison Agency is very secure and discreet, which is evident not just from the guarantee they provide!

Becoming An Ashley Madison Member
Member profiles are free to create and take only seconds to get started. The first page you come to simply asks you to pick a username (as anonymous as you like), a password, what your relationship status is, what gender you’re seeking, and your zip code to give you instant search results when you first log in. Ashley Madison also lets you know how many people are online at any one time (even during off-peak early morning times there are over 20000 people online!), helping you gauge the number opportunities available from this one site!

Profile Form
The second page you will come to is a quick summary of yourself to get you started. The information asked for is regarding your body type and what kind of affair you’re looking for. These options range from ‘something short term’ to cyber sex/chat or down the other end of the spectrum with ‘anything goes’. Apart from the greeting and email address boxes, all of the questions have scroll down answers, making it fast and easy to get your details into the database, ready to find someone on Ashley Madison. Once you click ‘submit’, you will be logged in instantly! You don’t even have to check your email address to confirm, however it’s recommended you do use a valid email address so that you can get a copy of your login details, in case you forget them in the future. An anonymous free email address is ideal for this kind of membership as you may receive emails from potential lovers which you wouldn’t want your partner reading. The initial email you do receive from the Ashley Madison Agency also includes a link to gain full membership access and also to purchase credit to enable you to use tools otherwise unavailable with the free membership, for instance, instant messaging with another member.

Inside The Members’ Area
Once you’ve gained access to Ashley Madison you can start checking out profiles of members in your area and abroad. The first page you’ll see when you first log into the site is a selection of members in your area that fit the gender you selected you were seeking and around the zip code you added when you signed up. Every other time you log in to Ashley Madison, your first page will be your mailbox, where you can see messages from other members. You may find, due to the mass of people accessing the site, you get at least one message within the first day. The more you mention about yourself, the more likely to get noticed

The top left of the page displays your profile number, your status (guest or full member) and number of credits you have (which are easily purchasable). Your status will not be disclosed to other members, making full members and free members able to interact.

Your Ashley Madison Profile
Your profile is editable by simply clicking the ‘manage profile’ button on the purple toolbar in the middle of the page. You can edit and add many aspects to your profile from interests, intimate information and what you’re looking for in a lover (from height to clothing, tattoos, smoking habits, personality and relationship qualities such as being a good listener). If you choose, you can add one or more pictures of yourself and choose whether to make them public or keep them private and discreet.

Searching For A Member
There is a fast search tool available just below the purple toolbar in your membership area. With ages ranging from 18 to 66+, you can set your preferred age limits, their location and when they last logged in. Ashley Madison offers an excellent advanced search tool that allows you to choose more specific details to refine your results further. Once you get the search results, you will see a profile image and summary of each member’s profile, then it’s only a matter of choice!

Free Membership Tools
If a member sparks your interest, there are several ways to make contact with them on a free membership! You can send messages to the member, telling them you’d like more information, would like to chat or would like to meet them. You can also send “winks” to other Ashley Madison members. These are customized alerts that let them know you’ve seen their profile and want to make contact. There are six short ready-written winks/messages to choose from. Your wink tool also offers two extra optional comments you can send the member: there are eighteen “What really turns me on about you” phrases and seventeen “I can’t wait to tell you about” phrases that range from mildly suggestive to very forward sexual suggestions.

If another Ashley Madison member initiates an instant chat session with you (you will see at the top center of the page, always showing), you can chat to them for free, see what they’re up to and go from there, and it’s free for you!

Benefits Of Being A Full Member
You can initiate instant chat with a member by using credits from your account, which are purchasable for under 50c each credit (you only use credit for initiating the chat, not for every message which makes it cheaper than SMSing too!). The other benefits of becoming a full member of Ashley Madison include the abilities to exchange private photos, appearing at the top of the list in search displays to give more attention to your profile (free memberships are generally lower in search results) and you can send priority mail and receive unlimited mail messages.

Privacy While Using Ashley Madison
Unlike many other dating sites, Ashley Madison  leaves the site’s ‘Page Title’ blank. The page title is displayed in the top left corner of the window, and also on the taskbar of your desktop. This is an exceptionally careful step they have taken to enable extra privacy for those times when you need to suddenly minimize the window (for instance if your partner enters the room). It is also handy if you like to keep multiple tabs open in your internet browser as it does not disclose the name of the site you’re visiting.

When you acquire credits, your credit card statement will not show “Ashley Madison”, rather it will show as  something that your partner could associate with the site or become suspicious from, which gives you a greater sense of privacy while using Ashley Madison’s services!

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